What do men want? part 2...

And your wondering continues....he didn't msg you a whole day...then the next day he sent you a msg late at night and asked, hi how have you been?...so you replied, not too good...so he asked why? what's wrong?...so you told him, you're what's wrong...and he asked again, what do you mean?...but he didn't bother to call...he didn't even bother to tell you why he forgot to msg you a whole day...

He used to call you babe...now it's just hi...and this is only your 3rd date...if this does extrapolate to the rest of your life, can you live like that? oh, he might sweet-talk again, and begs you for another chance to make things right..and he'll always find the right things to say to pacify you...justify his actions..and you'll buy it...but it's just too tiring for you...the emotional uncertainty...a friend told you that he's just in for the chase...once he has obtained the prize, he'll get bored...and you can't help wondering that maybe your friend's advice speaks loud and clear...

And you wonder if you're the only girl who goes through this...of course not...you're sure there are many men out there who play games like that...he has hurt you before...and he begged for you to accept him again...and it took a lot of courage to meet him again...and you thought that he would really cherish his second chance and treat you better...but you thought wrong....you really can't teach old dogs new tricks...they won't stick...he'll just revert back to his old ways and habits...all the 'he'll change becoz of love' mantra...bollocks!!! even in fairy tales, the prince charming never changed becoz of love...what makes you think it would be any better in real life?

You just pray that you won't end up being bitter and too jaded...even if you have to spend the rest of your life without a man by your side while all the people around you seem to be enjoying marital bliss...really, you are happy for them...you just wonder why it doesn't happen for you...perhaps you're being too choosy...don't think so...sigh...maybe you should just forget about this whole looking for a life partner quest (after all you're not even actively searching) and enjoy your single life travelling around the world the way you want it...