Sometimes you really wonder, what exactly do men want? and what are they thinking about when they're not saying anything to you? of course some men honestly aren't thinking at all most of the time...you can't seem to figure out why does he want to see you so much, is willing to go through all the trouble to meet you, only to spend most of his time sleeping...and when both of you are together, he doesn't seem too interested to talk to you...he doesn't really tell you about his day, doesn't really talk about his work, he'd rather watch tv....
And after he has met you, he doesn't call you for a week (or more)...oh sure, he sends you smses...but they're mostly one or two-liners...before, he would call you everyday even though both of you live in different continents...now, you ask him if he wants to chat, and he gives you vague excuses about needing to finish his work...really, if he is so into you, won't he just take 10 mins off his work and call you just to say hi and wish you goodnight? and you stupidly wonder, and cry yourself to sleep...
You don't want to be unreasonable..after all, a man should concentrate on his career...but there really are many discrepancies between how he used to treat you and how he treats you now...you really want to believe that he really means it when he says "i want you"...so why isn't he even acting like he wants you? you're a hopeless romantic, so you hope to make things work...so you will be patient...but you know even you can't wait too long...society isn't kind to aging unmarried career woman...
My advice to you is this...protect your own heart...coz no one else would...believe that someday, God will bring you to the man He meant for you...and that man will love you and want you just as you will love and want him...even if it happens when you're 60...
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